Matters of the heart: I deflowered her, now I can’t satisfy her!

I won’t bore you with the details of how and where I met Kemi, let’s just say I met her when she was ready for a relationship and I was searching for a ‘serious’ girl.
We met and the rest as they say is history.

For two years, there was no sexual relationship between Kemi and I. She wouldn’t allow it, she was a virgin. At first I was wary, I didn’t trust ladies who claimed to be virgins just to stop guys.
In time, I knew she was sincere and because I had already fallen for her, I stayed with her. We enjoyed every other aspect of our relationship and steered clear sex.

I knew I wanted to marry her. So without wasting any time, I asked her. She was momentarily taken aback, somehow, she believed I was going to leave her sooner or later because of our sexless relationship. She had even summoned courage to ask me if I was getting it elsewhere and I had replied that it didn’t matter.

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She was happy. She said yes. My joy overflowed.
Two months later, she decided it was time. We had sex.
I must confess that at first I was scared she wouldn’t be a virgin, scared that I would catch her in a big lie that could mar our future…but my fears were allayed. My bride to be was as white as she had painted herself.

Something happened after I deflowered Kemi, she always wanted sex. I thought initially that many years of sexual ‘hunger’ was responsible for her urge, but I was wrong, she is insatiable. She is never too tired for sex. On days when I complained of fatigue, she would nag till I gave in.

If she informed me she was coming for the weekend, I’d groan in fear of long nights.
To my fiancée, I am a lazy man, she started getting me different herbal concoctions to help me along. For God’s sake I am a very potent and healthy man, but I want moments that don’t lead to sex.

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Sometimes I just want to kiss and cuddle but I can’t initiate that, it would lead to sex or fight.
This might not be a problem to some, but I think it is. My wife-to-be is insatiable. She wants sex everyday, she never gets tired and I’m scared for our marriage.

Would I be able to keep up with her sexually? What if I can’t and she cheats? I have tried to talk to her but she doesn’t see my fears as justified. According to her, I should be glad.

She said there’s no use sleeping on the same bed if we won’t have sex. Some think she’d get tired soon but I’m afraid its getting worse by the day. We’re getting married in four months… what do I do?

La’bos

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